December 4, 2022 | Doug Sauder
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By Kiana Hershey
We all have expectations for marriage. Most of us aren’t aware of our expectations until we’re disappointed and can’t figure out why. We begin to think, They should have known what they did or didn’t do would cause me to feel hurt or get upset! But the reality is, your fiancé isn’t a mind reader. Let that both relieve you and challenge you! Someone can’t be held to an expectation that hasn’t been expressed or verbalized.
On your next date night, set aside some significant time to talk through the below questions. They’re designed to help you and your fiancé discover what expectations you’re coming into your marriage with and hopefully avoid future conflicts. Hopefully, this will help to bring clarity and connection to you both, while also giving you an opportunity to establish healthy expectations to uphold in your marriage!